A few hours ago, I started drinking again. I talked about it with my forever person first, because I promised I would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A few days ago, a good old friend offered me a job. He’s got influence in hiring. It was perfect. Except it was a government contract with the\u201dDepartment of War\u201d, so required a drug test. I’m a regular user of THC in NYS, where it is legal to be. But not in Trump’s whacky hypocritical administration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I can quit one thing cold turkey, but if you take away all my mind altering drugs, I can’t cope. That isn’t being an addict. That’s needing help that prescription medicine can’t give.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My depression is different than most. Most people who are depressed don’t want to live because they are depressed. I’m depressed because I don’t want to live. It’s existential depression, and normally psychologists don’t study this \u201cintellectual depression\u201d and we need specialized help, mostly to reshape our thinking. I feel the same awfulness that other depressed people feel, but suicidal ideation is a solution, not a symptom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’ve never had that. My psychologists just tell me I’m a genius and laugh at my humor and probably would pay to see ME.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
SO, gubmint, you are forcing me to stop being sober. By demonizing the relatively innocuous THC, you don’t care a freaking wit about how much someone drinks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alcohol is a poison. A feel-good poison, but a poison nevertheless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, I could push through the few days it would take me to forget marijuana, but that’s like you staying awake for a weekend just to prove your can go without sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Totally giving up any euphoric meds makes my life, well, unlivable. I need something to elevate me past my Dead Point and into genuine interaction with others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The woman agreed, even saying she was going to suggest it. Maybe because I’ve not been giving my intimacy just because I don’t feel like it, regardless of what she needs. Like she does with sex. No libido. Well, I’ve got no affection libido, so feel it for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I’m not really bitter. I know she loves me, and I love her. I just don’t think she understands how important intimacy is to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, I’m now an active alcoholic again. Blame the government or blame my willpower, but that’s where we are now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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